"Friendships are like speedbumps...just little bumps in the road causing you to slow down while getting to your intended destination."
There are things I regret doing and saying in my life...this is one of them.
In our lives we experience many friendships that come and go. Some of us build walls to keep our distances from those we actually care about. Why do we do this? For me, I came to a realization in my life that I have a fear of being let down. I've been let down in my childhood by friendships. Wounded by people I've let into my world only to have them disappoint me. The result was a person who always remains guarded, always avoids dealing with conflicts and dismisses friendships easily when they move along. This isn't healthy.
As I've grown in my personal relationship with God, I've learned that friendships in the Body of Christ are essential to the Christian walk. We were never meant to walk alone, we were never meant to deal with trials on our own and we were never meant to abandon those who God put in our paths. People are NOT speedbumps.
Proverbs 18:24 A man who has friends must himself be friendly, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
Just a thought to chew on this Wednesday. Do you need to rethink your view on friendships?
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